Domestic abuse does not discriminate. So, what can we do to prevent this impacting children?
When we think about victims of domestic abuse, we often picture adults. Yet the reality is that babies, children, and young people are profoundly affected and sadly overlooked.
Domestic Abuse Commissioner’s recent report, “Victims in their own right?”, confirmed that this hidden crisis demanded attention. This report marks a pivotal moment in how we understand and respond to child victims of domestic abuse.
The 2021 Domestic Abuse Act was a historic step forward—it legally recognised children as victims in their own right. The report makes it makes painfully clear that the legal recognition hasn’t yet translated into real, meaningful support for children victims.
Meaning support for children is vital as children will be our future. Professionals are to consider the impact of domestic abuse around children at all stages of proceedings.
Despite the law, less than a third of children who need support after experiencing domestic abuse are actually receiving it.
Why? The report identifies systemic issues:
- Lack of funding
- Inconsistent service provision
- Patchy education on healthy relationships
- Failures in early identification by schools
- Police
- Healthcare professionals
But perhaps the most powerful element of this report is the inclusion of children’s own voices, gathered through the “Tell Nicole” Engagement. Their messages are direct and haunting: “We want to be listened to.” “We need adults to believe us.” “Help us feel safe.”
Children aren’t asking for much. They want trauma-informed teachers, flexible and confidential support, and a justice system that recognises their needs and experiences. Yet the current response is fragmented and underfunded, with services often available only by postcode lottery.
There are bright spots. Initiatives like The Den in Blackpool are delivering child-focused, trauma-informed care. But these examples are too few and far between.
This report’s 66 recommendations aim to turn legal recognition into action. It calls for better commissioning, mandatory training for professionals, inclusive RSE education, and a coordinated community response that truly centres children.
Cygnet believe every child deserves to be seen, heard, and supported. We must amplify this report’s message: child victims of domestic abuse are not just witnesses. They are survivors. And they deserve better!
